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tropicun:

HUGE GIVEAWAY!

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Hello everyone, I am hosting the 7th annual giveaway. I love doing giveaways for you guys! They’re always so fun, and I love making someone’s year by giving them tons of items for FREE! so I’m at it again! These items are mostly brand new except a few which are in great condition, and have only been slightly used, being bought for me, or bought for the giveaway by me. This giveaway will end on exactly July 12th, 2014. I do not accept bribes, or pick people. The random generator I have coded will choose the winner. I will try to answer all questions that this post does not. p.s. my previous url was ilypizza (snuggul)

  • THE GIVEAWAY DRAWING WILL BE COMPLETELY RANDOM (THROUGH A RANDOM GENERATOR)

ONE WINNER, WINS ALL OF THE ITEMS. (ONLY 1 Winner)

Rules:

  1. Must be following snugguly (me)
  2. You may reblog as much as you’d like! I are keeping track of how many times you have reblogged the giveaway.

REBLOGS ONLY

  • no likes please
  • I are shipping world wide and for free to the winner (yes that means anywhere, so don’t feel that just because you don’t live in the USA you can’t win.)

If you have any questions just message me HERE

  • GIVEAWAY ENDS ON JULY 12TH, 2014 (to allow me enough time to ship the items to the winner before our summer is over)

Items:

  1. Macbook Pro - $1300
  2. IPad 2 (16g) - $400
  3. IPhone 5s (gold & 32g) - $300
  4. Bose Speaker (bluetooth) - $200
  5. Galaxy S4- $350
  6. Kindle Fire HD- $200
  7. Go Pro- $400
  8. Fossil Watch- $250
  9. Pandora Bracelet (2 charms)- $240
  10. Tiffany & Co necklace- $120
  11. Life Proof case- $100
  12. 9 IPhone 5 cases- $100
  13. IPhone 5 headphones- $10

TOTAL = $3,970

tropicun:

HUGE GIVEAWAY!

do not delete the text, only the pictures show up on your blog

Hello everyone, I am hosting the 7th annual giveaway. I love doing giveaways for you guys! They’re always so fun, and I love making someone’s year by giving them tons of items for FREE! so I’m at it again! These items are mostly brand new except a few which are in great condition, and have only been slightly used, being bought for me, or bought for the giveaway by me. This giveaway will end on exactly July 12th, 2014. I do not accept bribes, or pick people. The random generator I have coded will choose the winner. I will try to answer all questions that this post does not. p.s. my previous url was ilypizza (snuggul)

  • THE GIVEAWAY DRAWING WILL BE COMPLETELY RANDOM (THROUGH A RANDOM GENERATOR)

ONE WINNER, WINS ALL OF THE ITEMS. (ONLY 1 Winner)

Rules:

  1. Must be following snugguly (me)
  2. You may reblog as much as you’d like! I are keeping track of how many times you have reblogged the giveaway.

REBLOGS ONLY

  • no likes please
  • I are shipping world wide and for free to the winner (yes that means anywhere, so don’t feel that just because you don’t live in the USA you can’t win.)

If you have any questions just message me HERE

  • GIVEAWAY ENDS ON JULY 12TH, 2014 (to allow me enough time to ship the items to the winner before our summer is over)

Items:

  1. Macbook Pro - $1300
  2. IPad 2 (16g) - $400
  3. IPhone 5s (gold & 32g) - $300
  4. Bose Speaker (bluetooth) - $200
  5. Galaxy S4- $350
  6. Kindle Fire HD- $200
  7. Go Pro- $400
  8. Fossil Watch- $250
  9. Pandora Bracelet (2 charms)- $240
  10. Tiffany & Co necklace- $120
  11. Life Proof case- $100
  12. 9 IPhone 5 cases- $100
  13. IPhone 5 headphones- $10

TOTAL = $3,970

green-tea-smiles:

Ultimate Summer Giveaway!!!

Ok guys, I’m very lucky since I’ve put on the donations button in my sidebar, people have donated some money, do I decided to give back a little and do a giveaway.

As you might recall from my last giveaway, I’ll be away in the Caribbean for 3 weeks. I leave June 24th and return July 14th, but my last giveaway ended sooner than I expected, so I have time for another one.

What you’ll win:

  • Chanel Coco Mademoiselle Bath Soap
  • Chanel Coco Mademoiselle Velvet Body Oil
  • Chanel Coco Mademoiselle Fresh Moisture Mist
  • Coco Mademoiselle Fresh Hair Mist Spray
  • St Tropez Self Tan Bronzing Spray
  • St.Tropez Gradual Tan Plus Firming 4 in 1
  • Gold Chain Necklace Topshop
  • Zara Bloggers Leopard Animal Print Leather Hi Top Wedge Sneakers
  • Large Metal Aviator Matt Gold Green Mirror Lens Sunglasses
  • Urban Decay Naked 2 Palette
  • Triangl Bikini Pink

All of these lovely products come up to around £560 or $950 USD. Some are extras I got, some are products I bought just for this giveaway.

Sizing: Shoes are size 7 (40 UK) and the bikini is size medium in the top and bottom.

How you can win:

  • Must be following me, click here to go to my blog
  • Must not be pro-self harm on your blog
  • Must have your ask open to I can message you if you win
  • Reblogs count but not likes. You can however like to bookmark it.
  • Cannot reblog more than 15 times a week. You can start reblogging again every Sunday as a fresh start, but your previous reblogs will count as entries as well.
  • A message to me (not give away related) counts as 5 entries. Please be off anonymous so I can tell who gets the entries.
  • 1 reblog = 1 entry and 1 message = 5 entries.
  • 1 message per day is allowed, more won’t count towards your entries but feel free to keep messaging.
  • Even if I don’t answer and publish, I will count your entry.

Giveaway ends when this post hits 15,000 notes or when I return on July 14th!

I will be shipping internationally and will pay for the shipping myself. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me.

green-tea-smiles:

Ultimate Summer Giveaway!!!

Ok guys, I’m very lucky since I’ve put on the donations button in my sidebar, people have donated some money, do I decided to give back a little and do a giveaway.

As you might recall from my last giveaway, I’ll be away in the Caribbean for 3 weeks. I leave June 24th and return July 14th, but my last giveaway ended sooner than I expected, so I have time for another one.

What you’ll win:

  • Chanel Coco Mademoiselle Bath Soap
  • Chanel Coco Mademoiselle Velvet Body Oil
  • Chanel Coco Mademoiselle Fresh Moisture Mist
  • Coco Mademoiselle Fresh Hair Mist Spray
  • St Tropez Self Tan Bronzing Spray
  • St.Tropez Gradual Tan Plus Firming 4 in 1
  • Gold Chain Necklace Topshop
  • Zara Bloggers Leopard Animal Print Leather Hi Top Wedge Sneakers
  • Large Metal Aviator Matt Gold Green Mirror Lens Sunglasses
  • Urban Decay Naked 2 Palette
  • Triangl Bikini Pink

All of these lovely products come up to around £560 or $950 USD. Some are extras I got, some are products I bought just for this giveaway.

Sizing: Shoes are size 7 (40 UK) and the bikini is size medium in the top and bottom.

How you can win:

  • Must be following me, click here to go to my blog
  • Must not be pro-self harm on your blog
  • Must have your ask open to I can message you if you win
  • Reblogs count but not likes. You can however like to bookmark it.
  • Cannot reblog more than 15 times a week. You can start reblogging again every Sunday as a fresh start, but your previous reblogs will count as entries as well.
  • A message to me (not give away related) counts as 5 entries. Please be off anonymous so I can tell who gets the entries.
  • 1 reblog = 1 entry and 1 message = 5 entries.
  • 1 message per day is allowed, more won’t count towards your entries but feel free to keep messaging.
  • Even if I don’t answer and publish, I will count your entry.

Giveaway ends when this post hits 15,000 notes or when I return on July 14th!

I will be shipping internationally and will pay for the shipping myself. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me.

green-tea-smiles:

Ultimate Summer Giveaway!!!

Ok guys, I’m very lucky since I’ve put on the donations button in my sidebar, people have donated some money, do I decided to give back a little and do a giveaway.

As you might recall from my last giveaway, I’ll be away in the Caribbean for 3 weeks. I leave June 24th and return July 14th, but my last giveaway ended sooner than I expected, so I have time for another one.

What you’ll win:

  • Chanel Coco Mademoiselle Bath Soap
  • Chanel Coco Mademoiselle Velvet Body Oil
  • Chanel Coco Mademoiselle Fresh Moisture Mist
  • Coco Mademoiselle Fresh Hair Mist Spray
  • St Tropez Self Tan Bronzing Spray
  • St.Tropez Gradual Tan Plus Firming 4 in 1
  • Gold Chain Necklace Topshop
  • Zara Bloggers Leopard Animal Print Leather Hi Top Wedge Sneakers
  • Large Metal Aviator Matt Gold Green Mirror Lens Sunglasses
  • Urban Decay Naked 2 Palette
  • Triangl Bikini Pink

All of these lovely products come up to around £560 or $950 USD. Some are extras I got, some are products I bought just for this giveaway.

Sizing: Shoes are size 7 (40 UK) and the bikini is size medium in the top and bottom.

How you can win:

  • Must be following me, click here to go to my blog
  • Must not be pro-self harm on your blog
  • Must have your ask open to I can message you if you win
  • Reblogs count but not likes. You can however like to bookmark it.
  • Cannot reblog more than 15 times a week. You can start reblogging again every Sunday as a fresh start, but your previous reblogs will count as entries as well.
  • A message to me (not give away related) counts as 5 entries. Please be off anonymous so I can tell who gets the entries.
  • 1 reblog = 1 entry and 1 message = 5 entries.
  • 1 message per day is allowed, more won’t count towards your entries but feel free to keep messaging.
  • Even if I don’t answer and publish, I will count your entry.

Giveaway ends when this post hits 15,000 notes or when I return on July 14th!

I will be shipping internationally and will pay for the shipping myself. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me.

skinny-angels:

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skinny-angels:

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When [an abusive man] tells me that he became abusive because he lost control of himself, I ask him why he didn’t do something even worse. For example, I might say, “You called her a fucking whore, you grabbed the phone out of her hand and whipped it across the room, and then you gave her a shove and she fell down. There she was at your feet where it would have been easy to kick her in the head. Now, you have just finished telling me that you were ‘totally out of control’ at that time, but you didn’t kick her. What stopped you?” And the client can always give me a reason. Here are some common explanations:

"I wouldn’t want to cause her a serious injury."
“I realized one of the children was watching.”
“I was afraid someone would call the police.”
“I could kill her if I did that.”
“The fight was getting loud, and I was afraid the neighbors would hear.”

And the most frequent response of all:

"Jesus, I wouldn’t do that. I would never do something like that to her.”

The response that I almost never heard — I remember hearing it twice in the fifteen years — was: “I don’t know.”

These ready answers strip the cover off of my clients’ loss of control excuse. While a man is on an abusive rampage, verbally or physically, his mind maintains awareness of a number of questions: “Am I doing something that other people could find out about, so it could make me look bad? Am I doing anything that could get me in legal trouble? Could I get hurt myself? Am I doing anything that I myself consider too cruel, gross, or violent?”

A critical insight seeped into me from working with my first few dozen clients: An abuser almost never does anything that he himself considers morally unacceptable. He may hide what he does because he thinks other people would disagree with it, but he feels justified inside. I can’t remember a client ever having said to me: “There’s no way I can defend what I did. It was just totally wrong.” He invariably has a reason that he considers good enough. In short, an abuser’s core problem is that he has a distorted sense of right and wrong.

I sometimes ask my clients the following question: “How many of you have ever felt angry enough at youer mother to get the urge to call her a bitch?” Typically half or more of the group members raise their hands. Then I ask, “How many of you have ever acted on that urge?” All the hands fly down, and the men cast appalled gazes on me, as if I had just asked whether they sell drugs outside elementary schools. So then I ask, “Well, why haven’t you?” The same answer shoots out from the men each time I do this exercise: “But you can’t treat your mother like that, no matter how angry you are! You just don’t do that!”

The unspoken remainder of this statement, which we can fill in for my clients, is: “But you can treat your wife or girlfriend like that, as long as you have a good enough reason. That’s different.” In other words, the abuser’s problem lies above all in his belief that controlling or abusing his female partner is justifiable….

Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men (via seebster)

This speaks to me on a level that I can’t explain. I know this man …

(via thepleasureprinciple)

I too, know this man.

(via bibibellatrixx)